Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Wednesday RANT

  1. you say you are Christian but you can't forgive a child for moving back to his mother's?
  2. you keep saying an apology is needed when there isn't anything for a child to apologize for!
  3. you tell an elderly grandmother you will not go to a family function if your step son is going to be there!
  4. you keep the child's father away from his son to the point he doesn't even know him really!
I just don't get it.  I remember as a church member (long ago) being drilled that children are pure and innocent and that Jesus loves them and we all should too, forgiveness is divine, WTF!!!  I don't understand how some people are so f'd up that they can't move on. 
You are a grown up he is a teenager, he fell asleep on the couch FULLY DRESSED as did his girlfriend and you say that is wrong.  You say Air Cadets is brain washing him yet you want him to go to the one closest to your house so he isn't near me, his MOTHER!  You ground him, take his cell (which he pays for) and his laptop (which he saved to purchase) because he was 15 minutes late coming home from cadets because he walked a young girl up a DARK street at NIGHT to her home so she arrived safe and unharmed!  I taught him to be a gentleman, to be polite and to be honorable and you say he is RUDE and a HORRIBLE person!
There is a time when you need to move the fuck on and deal with the fact you married a man who has 2 children with me! GROW UP!!!  Joe barely knows his father anymore, he misses his baby brother because you will not allow him to visit him and you do not ALLOW anyone to mention Joe's name in the house because your son crys because he misses his brother... And this is Joe's fault HOW?????
I forgive your ignorance but will never forgive how you treat my children or my ex-in-laws!!!

3 comments:

mrsb said...

((hugs))

Sometimes I am grateful that my ex has nothing to do with my oldest son, so I don't have to deal with things like this.

Lisa said...

So sorry you and your son are having to deal with this. Hugs to you.

Dede said...

Oh Sherry, I am so sorry your son is having to deal with a so called adult. Hugs to him... Why is it that "adults" seem to use children as their pawns? I have never understood that.

(((HUGS)))